“Stop Comparing. Start Becoming.” Lessons from Kazaina Akofa Makena Senanu’s Graduation Speech

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At the African Leadership Academy’s Class of 2023 graduation, student speaker Kazaina Akofa Makena Senanu delivered a deeply personal, honest, and inspiring message, one that resonated far beyond the ceremonial stage.

Kazaina, who is proudly from both Kenya and Ghana, opened her speech with an unexpected muse: Barbie. But the real lesson wasn’t in Barbie’s endless possibilities—it was in Raquel, the character forever chasing someone else’s shine. In Raquel’s insecurity, Kazaina saw a reflection of her own journey, one shaped by constant comparison, pressure to perform, and the fear of not being enough.

Kazaina’s story unfolded with vulnerability. She spoke about arriving at ALA and immediately feeling outmatched, surrounded by students with impressive titles and accolades. Her self-doubt led her to chase an image of what she thought leadership looked like. She joined clubs, pursued roles, and pushed herself to match others’ strengths, losing sight of her own voice in the process.

But somewhere between failure and reflection, between chasing and becoming, she found her turning point—her “Barbie moment.” It wasn’t about pink dresses or perfection. It was about authenticity. It was about doing something for herself, like speaking at TEDx not for a title, but because she genuinely loves to lead with words.

Her message to her fellow graduates was clear:

Kazaina celebrated her peers’ own “Barbie moments”—from conquering stage fright to telling difficult personal stories, to raising funds for communities in need. She reminded the audience that leadership isn’t something you imitate; it’s something you grow into by staying true to yourself.

And though she humbly stated she has not yet “earned” the title of African leader, her courage, honesty, and growth prove otherwise.

Kazaina closed with a call to action:

Lead on your own terms. Let authenticity—not imitation—be your compass.

As the Class of 2023 steps forward, they carry with them a reminder that the path to leadership begins with becoming the truest version of yourself.

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